Thursday, April 28, 2011

Shot, shot, shot, shot, shot, shot….

 Monday.

The day for our immunization shots.

I've been trying to plan these forever, because the Hepatitis A & B shot that we get needs to be done in 3 shots over 6 months. So David - although I asked him again and again - never told me dates that would work.

WAIT. That is a lie.  He told me on our second to last day of Christmas break that we could go before school started up again.  Lovely.  Are you surprised there were not appointments available?

Oh - and he told me the first morning of spring break that any time that week would work. Oddly enough - we couldn't get in on such short notice.  SO WEIRD.

So I planned a personal day and scheduled the shots and crossed my fingers that he would be able to come.  We could have done them on different days, but we saved like $60 in administrative fees if we went together.

Miraculously he made it.  But he was stressed out the whole time because he needed to get back for a meeting that I'm sure just wouldn't happen smoothly without his witty charm and organization skills.  YES - those same organization skills that caused him to keep forgetting to list a few dates for shots, that would not interfere with any meetings.  

So he stressed about going 'first' for a week before the shots and got out of the office a whopping five minutes before me.  Because I had to pay.  Which was actually a little more painful than the shots :)  You'd be surprised to hear how much 7 shots cost us.

We got the shots that our health department suggested. 3 for him, 4 for me.  I needed to get one more "booster" shot than Dave because I can't find my immunization records from childhood.  My mother is CERTAIN she gave them to me at some point.  And although I'm pretty organized at this point in my life, I haven't always been that way.  There's a slight chance I misplaced them in my reckless abandon days.  But don't tell my mom.  I told her I was SURE she had it, and must've lost it :)

So that particular shot was the one that hurt the worst.  SERIOUSLY.  It was an MMR booster.  Because although I probably got the second shot as a child, I didn't have record of it so I might as well be "sure" and get the booster.  The nurse told me this shot is the reason kids cry when they get shots.  Its not the actual SHOT - but the "whatever it is" they are shooting in your arm.  It burns.  And I cringed.  And almost cried like a tiny little baby.

But I didn't.

Fast forward 2 days to my first grade classroom.  A student says, "Mrs. Stefanich, there is a red spot on your arm."  I look, and sure enough - a big red spot the size of a silver dollar.  And here's the weird part. My whole are is normal - "coolish" feeling skin.  But this red spot?  Its hot.  How weird is that?

So obviously I call the health department.
Because I could be dying, of course.  Which is a hilarious preview of how I'll be as a mother whenever my child has an ailment.  Apparently I'm going to be THAT mom.

And of course it was nothing.  Apparently reactions on the arms where you got the shots are normal.  Which I'm skeptical of - because did she hear me say the red spot is warm?  But now I'm left with a large bruise, which is probably appropriate. And my arm hasn't fallen off, so other than a little soreness, I think we're good.

In other news, we're also taking some pills for our Typhoid immunization.  We've heard there can be some nasty side effects.  David had a killer headache after the first pill, but I handled it like a champ. Unlike the way I handle shots.   We'll see how the rest of them go.

I'll keep you updated on my arm.  Although if it gets much worse I'll be typing with just one hand… And that could be tricky :)

Monday, April 11, 2011

April Numbers

 Okay - so I promised to be on the ball with this.  So I am.

We just got our April numbers today, and here I am blogging about it already.  AND on the first work day after spring break.  Go me!

We are pretty excited about these numbers.  We hadn't been hearing of any referrals lately, so these numbers were a bit lower than we expected.  Definitely worthy of a fist pump in the air, if I do say so myself.

Our girl number went from 26 to…





Our boy number went from 19 to….



And our sibling number went from 17 to…




Yep.  Double fist pump for the number 14!

Makes me even more excited for May numbers now….

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Morning Always Comes


People ask us all the time whats going on with the adoption.  


And I LOVE it.  Pregnant woman get asked all the time because you can see them progressing.  They are beautiful and clearly have a baby on the way.  For me, its not so obvious.  So when people ask, I beam.  


But lately, I just don't know what to say.  Its so hard to talk about this amazing, exciting, life changing event because there is so much up in the air.  We have no idea what our time line is now.  We have no idea when we will get a referral.  Or how long after that we will get a court date.  And then an embassy date.  


We used to say to each other, "this time next year we'll have a little one."  "When we have a baby next year, will we go here?" "When should we start the nursery?"  But now, we just don't know.  We have no time line.  We have no idea.  We feel so very much in the dark.


We know we've been led on this journey toward our child for a reason.  And we are staying the course.  Because one thing I know is that no matter how hard it is to be in the dark, the morning always comes.  


And if you've ever seen the sun rise, you know its worth the wait.   




I know the sunrise is coming.  I don't know when, but it is coming.  And its going to be amazing.  


Thank you all for standing by us as we wait. 

I'll be humming this until I can enjoy that beautiful sunrise…


Here comes the sun, doo doo doo doo
Here comes the sun, and I say
It's alright

Little darling
It's been a long, cold, lonely winter
Little darling
It feels like years since it's been here

Here comes the sun
Here comes the sun, and I say

It's alright

Little darling
The smiles returning to the faces
Little darling
It seems like years since it's been here

Here comes the sun
Here comes the sun, and I say
It's alright

Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes

Little darling

I see the ice is slowly melting
Little darling
It seems like years since it's been clear

Here comes the sun, here comes the sun and i say,
It's alright 
Its alright



Tuesday, April 5, 2011

March Numbers in April

 I'm a little behind.

I haven't written since my birthday.  So apparently I'm not very inspired at the age of 29.   I have plenty to say and write - just no time to do it.  But now its my spring break, and David and I are happily at home with nothing but time on our hands.  At least for a few more days.  So my blogging habits will hopefully get back to normal.

On to our MARCH numbers.  I'm thrilled that I'm posting these before we get April numbers.  Thrilled… and incredibly hopeful that when I post April numbers this month they will be WAY different.  Hoping, hoping, hoping….


For girls we are currently….






For boys we are….





For siblings we are….






Seriously.  My tardiness in posting numbers will NOT happen again :)  Happy April!
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